8 Holiday Joys

I've done some things I'm not proud to admit... I've also accomplished a good deal this holiday season. Following is a list of eight things that I did this year to improve my productivity and sanity.

It worked once:

1. Freezing Christmas Dinner: I wouldn't be the first person to discuss the joys and disappointments in preparing a full turkey dinner for nine people, though I may be foolish to do so while eight months pregnant. To counteract the insanity, I began preparing casseroles and desserts weeks ago. I froze these prepared dishes and simply reheated them on Christmas day. The day-of cooking consisted of throwing some broth in the crock pot early that morning, then using the stock for the stuffing and noodles. Hubby fried the turkey-beautifully and safely. Next year, I'll just remember to defrost the casseroles a day before the meal to shorten time in the oven.
2. Layering the Christmas Tree: I have an enormous Christmas tree, and it requires some engineering to decorate. I've developed a way to layer ornaments on the tree to maximize coverage and give the illusion of random placement. Following a plan when decorating the tree allows me to delegate tasks while still maintaining some control over the look of the finished product. Everyone's happier when mom's not screaming, "NO! Put it there-not there!"
3. Foregoing the Garland on the Banister: Following my advice to another online friend, "Good enough is still enough," I decided NOT to put the pine garland on the banister this year. Why stress about something that will not get noticed? There's always next year!
4. Resting: Rather than jump right into preparations for the big day, I took a few days to relax after the long work session. I know we don't all have the luxury of taking a few days off, but even a few hours set aside for relaxation will allow you to focus on your upcoming goals. The purpose of the holiday is to enjoy time with our families, not to stress about every little detail.
5. Ignoring the Budget: I gave myself permission to spoil just one recipient this year. It was so gratifying to go out on a shopping spree and choose those things I thought he would most enjoy. I kept myself in check by sticking to budget for everyone else, but I enjoyed the liberty of imagining I had all the money in the world for this one set of gifts. I may repeat this tradition next year.
6. Calling the Groomer: I have learned that outsourcing is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of maturity. I cannot do it all, and grooming a toy poodle is definitely out of my realm of expertise. I was happier, the dog was happier, and the groomer was happy to have the business. Do you tip your dog groomer? If you tip your own hairstylist, isn't it appropriate to tip Fido's as well?
7. Creating a Wish List: Yes, this made gift opening a happier experience for all. My husband was visibly relieved as I opened and loved each gift.
8. Making SOME Gifts: For my colleagues and child's teachers, I created holiday survival kits. When looking for gifts to show your appreciation, thoughtful consideration really is worth more than trite tokens. Sure, this process took a bit of extra time, but that's part of the point. The recipients were delighted!